Jealous Friends - Hated you for what you have

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I think many of us have experienced or experiencing jealousies from friends because of the things you can do, like better in class, have a cooler blog, is pretty, have cooler toys, etc. Let's post your experience here.

Here's mine.
I was 'talking' with celebfc and biancadimero at FUNNY, NASTY & WEIRD MESSEAGES about jealousy.

I think jealousy is a very destructive feeling one has if we cannot control it. My mom once said I'm like the innocent Lindsay Lohan in the movie "MEAN GIRLS". I am not quite expose to the experience of feeling jealous of what others have that I don't. I don't feel jealous of friends who have nicer blogs than me. In fact I feel very proud that I have a friend like cammy who is super duper so good in graphics and Joice who is constantly watching a new movie! CandYanka* with her cool dollies, Ratri with her story in school, Phoebe.... LOL I tell my parents about everyone here that I like, their lives and friends, etc.

I admire friends that have cool handphones ----- can you believe that *I DON'T HAVE ONE?* I used to have one with a Ferrari cover but I broke it by accident. Since then I've been dying to get a new one but my parents said it's not the right time. Do I feel jealous when Cammy and Joice show theirs to me? Do I feel jealous when I read so many of you have cool handphones which I wish soooooo much to get? I really don't. I consider you guys lucky.

That is why sometimes it makes me sad when bloggers I don't know hate me because I have a cooler blog and website. I'm lucky, my mom helps me a LOT but that doesn't mean I am showing off. I'm proud I have a cool blog and website and Forum that members like- I do but I have always been taught at home that there is not just me who can make a place popular. It's ALL of us, you and I.

I'm lucky my parents can afford to buy me toys, books and some really nice stuffs. I used to share them with friends I made where I live. They will visit my house everyday and want to come to my room. Eventually all they want to do is play games in my computer, use my gameboy, but not playing with me! Some of them treated my toys so badly. One even punchured my basketball when I left them to go back to the house. That was really mean. I borrowed my rollerblades and they broke the wheels! How can people not taking care of others' belonging when they want to borrow them? My DVD movies got scratched!!! Icon_favorites18

That was when my parents put a stop to me lending my stuffs out.

When I stop lending them my toys, those 'friends' don't want to play with me anymore. They spoke bad stuffs about me. Three kids even said rude things about me and my family. I was really sad. I stopped playing outside and only play with a few friends that are really friends.

I have some nice friends now. They respect my toys that I'm allowed to bring out to play. They are not jealous of me because of the toys I have. Those so called 'friends' started coming back because they see how much fun my friends and I have and wanted to play too. I let them play along but I am always careful with them because I know when jealousy visits them again, they will hate me.

So my life is just the same like everyone else here. You have something I don't have. I have something you don't have. Cammy said it once just because I travel more than anyone else doesn't make me a different kid. You know what.... as much as I love travelling, I also would like to stay in just one nice place and not have to move. I want to make friends that stay with me until I grow up and don't have to say good bye after a few months or one year. It's very painful. BlueHeaven (Ratri) ought to know because she is in an International School where her friends sometimes have to say good bye when their fathers transferred to another country. My life is like that.

This Forum is very important to me because I can 'meet' all my friends no matter where I am. My parents always tell me ---- be nice, be humble not proud and showing off. What you have in the world won't make your living nice when you don't have real friends.

This is my life and I hope when you read this, you will know more about my life and not hate me for all the wrong reasons.

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SmileyC · Posted: Fri Apr 07, 2006 4:17 pm Post subject:

I won't hate you ! You're my friend !!

I don't think she's jaelous but when she was new she copied my drawing. A bout a week ago she told me she was good at drawing and she could do anime style cus she improved. I said I could but I didn't draw it on a paper cus of my reasons that you know HX. I did it in the air. I can though I can even draw it and take a pic and post it. Today she drew a dragon which took her about 5 minutes she showed it to me. I thought it wasn't good I can't do it very good but I drew a dragon in less than 20 seconds, my friend, Thomas saw it and said "WOW cool, I couln't have done it that, it would've taken me ages !" It was very cute then my other freind, Jake said "Me and Jerrin think you should be a cartoonist, Catherine !" I felt so happy.

Do you think it's jelousy ?
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NiCA-ChAN · Posted: Fri Apr 07, 2006 4:22 pm Post subject:

yup,your my BFFL!!!
lol,and gosh!!!
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[x] exotic realm · Posted: Fri Apr 07, 2006 4:27 pm Post subject:

Awwww..

I actually get them..
I really hate people who borrows my stuff and breaks it on purpose..

I know how it feels when people move to another country and leaving his/her friends behind because I DO school in an International one..It's really sad for him/her to leave and you can cry..I cried over a friend once because she had to leave..When I left Indonesia, I was also crying but my friends didn't care..I visited that school once but they don't really care..I now stopped coming there coz I know that they won't like it..

People can get jealous easily and they make them feel bad so that she/he will forgive whatever they did -eventhough it isn't wrong- and do all those things..It's like people on jail..

Some people are jealous at my friend Zandra, and trying to be HER.She hates it when people are jealous at her and tryna be her and she gets mad.She'll be saying "What's there for me that is so special?I'm just a normal kid" or something like that..There's more..Zandra has a crush on this guy and this girl, Jeong Hyun was jealous of her and suddenly taking her crush..And it happens to her again and again and again..

I don't know if there is someone hating me or jealous at me or trying to be me but I really don't like people to get jealous because I'm just TOO normal.No specialities,nothing..I'm trying to be myself and that's just the way it is.I can't change but if I can, I don't want to.I get high marks sometimes and people are not talking to me for that..I don't know how or why or what but it's not fair.Marks are just marks..It's not my fault that he/she gets low.I studied and that's all what I did.

I don't get all the cool gadgets and everything but when people show it to me, I'll just take a look and think that they're just..NORMAL AND LUCKY.

I was hoping to get a new phone but my mom said later..EVEN my dad..I get a bit jealous seeing them and it's pretty tempting..

I'm not a person like Gretchen -Mean Girls- who thinks she's famous, popular,rich or whatsoever because, when you do that, people will start hating you.

When people are jealous of me, I don't really mind because I'm jealous of everybody.And I do have a reason..

THEY HAVE SOMETHiNG WHiCH i DON'T HAVE.

And I bet you, yes, you, the one who's reading, is jealous of everybody too.

I wish that you could understand that people are just lucky and there's no need to hate people when you're jealous of them.
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SmileyC · Posted: Fri Apr 07, 2006 4:40 pm Post subject:

They're so mean to your friends, Ratri !!! I can't believe they're like that !!

chymeer, Why did you post a code here ? This topic is about jelousy. Why don't you post it in HTMLhelp. That's also another way of spamming.

My friends are better at me than sports and I'd like to get better but I don't get jelous. I just try harder
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NiCA-ChAN · Posted: Fri Apr 07, 2006 4:41 pm Post subject:

uhm...ratri,even they said "may I borrow it?" ?
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Love is a mysterious thing like inside a box...
Love is where we express our feelings for somebody...
Love is where we send gifts like flowers, chocolates for them to feel our feelings for them...
Love is when a relationship build and build until it became pure...
That's my meaning of love. What's yours and who's your valentines?

[x] exotic realm · Posted: Fri Apr 07, 2006 5:21 pm Post subject:

IF they borrow my stuff with my permission and breaks it, I'll be mad..

But it's MUCH more worse if they have my permission!

I know!Zandra, is a really talented, pretty, awesome and more of that and she doesn't follow anyone.She really hates people who tries to be her..
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thats why youll find her on the floor

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and she knows it

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lil_cookie--[killer] · Posted: Sat Apr 08, 2006 5:05 am Post subject:

Ratri and Hui Xian, I think we feel the same way too.
I am so sad until now that left the Philippines and my friends.
And some of my relatives are gone forever and I havent been there to them!
But I am happy to have something I have.
Like I said before, "People arent perfect at all but you're perfect of who you are."
And even this one is true "THEY HAVE SOMETHiNG WHiCH i DON'T HAVE."
Hui Xian has an Ipod which I dont have, but I have a phone which Hui Xian doesnt have!
Joice goes to the movies more often than me, but I watch more DVD's than movies.
Yes, we can get a little jealous.
But it will go over if you think than that "Little Thing"

People who are jealous can't think!
Jealous people wont think of that Person's Heart but they think of the Quality of that person!
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-- i r a h n e s s x3 · Posted: Sun Apr 09, 2006 3:57 pm Post subject:

I dnt understand..
my friend gets very jealous of me..
Why?Because her friend likes me but doesnt really like her.
So?Its not my fault..
But instead she becomes MEAN to me and talks to me only when she NEEDS something that i have and she doesnt.
Its very HURTiNG..
She has enough friends coz she tell them to not friend me and all..
BUT i'M LEFT WiTH NO FRiENDS..
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SmileyC · Posted: Tue Apr 11, 2006 2:51 pm Post subject:

winxfanclub · Posted: Sun Jun 04, 2006 7:44 pm Post subject:

My friend got jealouse about me because I am top in class and my exams marks is higher than him.We did not talk/play with aech other for a while and we got back together.
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Nicolina · Posted: Tue Jun 27, 2006 5:43 pm Post subject:

I don't think anyone at school is jealous of me because I was top in my third grade class, yaddah, yaddah. Instead, they congratulate me and tell me to keep up the good work.

My BFFL keeps on saying she's dumb because she doesn't have any honors like my other BFFL and I do. But we tell her to try more harder. She always puts herself down- which is one of the things you shouldn't do.

I think Rubin Lee is jealous of me getting first honors. Our principal accidentally gave her a medal--- when she should get only a certificate!
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lil_cookie--[killer] · Posted: Tue Jun 27, 2006 8:47 pm Post subject:

summer_chick62 · Posted: Wed Jun 28, 2006 4:22 am Post subject:

Me and my friends were never really jelous of each other, whenever one of us has something nice or or does well at something, we congradulate, that's how it should be, al least, in my opinion
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James · Posted: Wed Sep 27, 2006 8:56 am Post subject:

My friends and alot of people at my old school always say to me, "Your Rich ay?". At my old school I used to get bullied because of what I had that they dont. I cant help it if I was born into a good wealthy family... Thats not my problem they wernt and its not my fault they were and they just bully me because they are jealous... People at my new school say it but they dont bully me about it. They are nice to me Icon_emotions16

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