Should I Gain Weight?

t h e . d r e a m e r · Posted: Sat Apr 22, 2006 3:19 pm Post subject: Should I Gain Weight?

"I want to play hockey, like I did in middle school, but now that I'm in high school, the other guys have bulked up and I haven't. What can I do?"

"All of my friends have broad shoulders and look like they lift weights. No matter what I do, I just look scrawny. What can I do?"

"It's not like I want to gain a lot of weight, but I'd like to look like I have some curves, like the girls I see on TV. What can I do?"

A lot of teens think that they're too skinny, and wonder if they should do something about it. But before you start any kind of plan to gain weight, there's an important question to answer: Why?

Why Do People Want to Gain Weight?
Before you do anything to try to gain weight, it's a good idea to look at your reasons for wanting to do so. Some of the reasons people give for wanting to gain weight are:

I'm worried that there's something wrong with me. If you want to gain weight because you think you have a medical problem, talk to your doctor. Although certain health conditions can cause a person to be underweight, most of them have symptoms other than skinniness, like stomach pain or diarrhea. So it's likely that if some kind of medical problem is making you skinny, you probably wouldn't feel well.

I'm worried because all of my friends have filled out and I haven't. Many guys and girls are really skinny until they start to go through puberty. The changes that come with puberty include weight gain, and, in guys, broader shoulders and increased muscle mass.

Because everyone is on a different schedule, some of your friends may have started to fill out when they were as young as 8 (if they are girls) or 10 (if they are boys). But for some normal kids, puberty may not start until 12 for girls or 14 for guys. And even if you start puberty then, it may take 3 or 4 years for you to fully develop and gain all of the weight and muscle mass you will have as an adult.

Some people experience what's called delayed puberty. This usually can be explained simply as being a "late bloomer" (you may find that some relatives of yours developed late, too). Most teens who experience delayed puberty don't need to do anything; they'll eventually develop normally - and that includes gaining weight and muscle. If you are concerned about delayed puberty, though, talk to your doctor.

Our genes play an important role in determining our body type. Adult bodies come in all different shapes and sizes, and some people stay lean their entire lives, no matter what they do.

I've always wanted to play a certain sport - now I don't know if I can. Lots of people come to love a sport in grade school or middle school - and then find themselves on the bench when their teammates develop faster. If you've always envisioned yourself playing football, it can be tough when your body doesn't seem to want to measure up. You may need to wait until your body goes through puberty before you can play football on the varsity squad.

Another option to consider is switching your ambitions to another sport. If it seems that your body type is long and lean and you were the fastest defensive player on your middle school football team, maybe track and field is for you. Many adults find that the sports they love the most are those that fit their body types the best.

I just hate the way I look! Developing can be tough enough without the pressure to be perfect. Your body changes (or doesn't change), your friends' bodies change (or don't), and you all spend a lot of time noticing. It's easy to judge both yourself and others based on appearances. It can feel like life is some kind of beauty contest.

Your body is your own, and as frustrating as it may seem to begin with, there are certain things you can't speed up or change. But there is one thing you can do to help: Work to keep your body healthy so that you can grow and develop properly. Self-esteem can play a part here, too. People who learn to love their bodies and accept them for what they are carry themselves well and project a type of self-confidence that helps them look attractive.

If you're having trouble with your body image, talk about how you feel with someone you like and trust who's been through it - a parent, doctor, counselor, coach, or teacher.

It's the Growth, Not the Gain
No matter what your reason is for wanting to gain weight, here's a simple fact: The majority of teens have no reason - medical or otherwise - to try to gain weight. An effort like this will at best simply not work and at worst increase your body fat, putting you at risk for health problems.

So focus on growing strong, not gaining weight. Keeping your body healthy and fit so that it grows well is an important part of your job as a teen. Here are some things you can do to help this happen:

Make nutrition your mission. Your friends who want to slim down are eating more salads and fruit. Here's a surprise: So should you. You can do more for your body by eating a variety of healthier foods instead of trying to pack on body fat by forcing yourself to eat a lot of unhealthy high-fat, high-sugar foods. Chances are, high-fat foods won't help you gain weight anyway. Eating a variety of healthy foods, making time for regular meals and snacks, and eating only until you are full will give your body its best chance to stay healthy as it gets the fuel and nutrients it needs.

Good nutrition doesn't have to be complicated. Here are some simple tips:

* Eat lots of vegetables, fruits, and whole grains.
* Eat breakfast every day.
* Eat regular snacks.
* Eat a variety of foods. That can sometimes include less nutritious ones, like chips and soda. But try to limit them so you don't crowd out healthier food and drinks.

Eating well at this point in your life is important for lots of reasons. It's a key part of normal growth and development. It's also good to learn good habits now - they'll become second nature, which will help you stay healthy and fit without even thinking about it.

Keep on moving. Another way to keep your body healthy is to incorporate regular exercise. This can simply be a matter of walking to school, playing Frisbee with your friends, or helping out with some household chores. Or you might choose to work out at a gym or with a sports team. A good rule of thumb for exercise amounts during the teen years: Try to get 30 to 60 minutes of activity every day (like walking to school or around the mall) and get more vigorous activity (like playing soccer or skating) for at 20 minutes or more at least three times a week.

Strength training, when done safely, is a healthy way to exercise, but it won't necessarily bulk you up. Guys especially get more muscular during puberty, but puberty is no guarantee that you'll turn into a cover model for Muscle & Fitness in a couple of years - some people just don't have the kind of body type for this to happen.

If you've hit puberty, the right amount of weight training will help your muscles become stronger and have more endurance. And, once a person's reached puberty, proper weight training can help him or her bulk up a bit, if that's the goal. Be sure to work with a certified trainer, who can show you how to do it without injuring yourself. It can be easy to overdo strength training, especially during the teenage years when there's more risk of injuring bones that haven't finished growing yet.

Get the skinny on supplements. Thinking about drinking something from a can or taking a pill to turn you buff overnight? Guess again. Supplements or pills that make promises like this are at best a waste of money and at worst potentially harmful to your health.

The best way to get the fuel you need to build muscle is by eating well. Before you take any kind of supplement at all - even if it's just a vitamin pill - you should talk to your doctor.

Sleep your way to stunning. Sleep is an important component of normal growth and development. If you get enough, you'll have the energy to fuel your growth. Your body is at work while it sleeps - oxygen moves to the brain, growth hormones are released, and your bones keep on developing, even while you're resting.

Focus on feeling good. It can help to know that your body is likely to change in the months and years ahead. Few of us look at 25 like we did at 15. But, it's also important to realize that feeling good about yourself can make you more attractive to others, too.

Reviewed by: Steven Dowshen, MD

bugbug · Posted: Sun Apr 23, 2006 11:01 pm Post subject:

Well i didnt read everything
but it doesnt matter so much on weight it matters on fitness
so you exercise and you will gain weight cause muscle carrys weight
so thats it i have to say Icon_evil16

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HX i do not see your whole body picture. But i guess your thin. Are You?

NiCA-ChAN · Posted: Mon Apr 24, 2006 7:50 am Post subject:

badminton is the good sports to help you out to be strong and... healthy lol and make urself again (for fats)
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t h e . d r e a m e r · Posted: Mon Apr 24, 2006 11:21 am Post subject:

I don't think I'm thin.
I'm about 5' 1" tall with 93 lb.

I may be tall when I stand with my Malaysian friends my age. Most of them reached only my shoulder but when I compare myself with my mom's side of the family, they are as tall as me. I just don't like it when I go swimming and some of my friends said my thighs are fat! :icon_angry3: They are not fat! Theirs are skinny! Icon_favorites49

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My parents don't eat so much rice. Each time we go on a rice diet, eating rice two times a day for a week, all of us will put on weight. Carbohydrate is not so good for the body, even white bread.

SmileyC · Posted: Mon Apr 24, 2006 12:16 pm Post subject:

I'm overweight. And sometimes I even feel sloppy. Now I'm trying to lose weight. Me :

Age

11

Height

4"1"

Weight

88 lbs
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Ashirox · Posted: Mon Apr 24, 2006 12:32 pm Post subject:

Do u mean that rice is good for gaining weight?
We should always have more of the milk-made products too right?Like cheese and yogurts...
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t h e . d r e a m e r · Posted: Mon Apr 24, 2006 3:26 pm Post subject:

You don't look overweight Catherine!!! There are times when I eat a lot, really a lot... I can finish two plates of green salad, 2 chicken cordon bleu with cheese and fries and my face will be round. Mom will complain that I am putting on weight and dad will say it's me growing up and I needed LOTS of filling food to grow. Then I will grow an inche taller suddenly and after a while, I stopped eating so much and went back to my 'ideal' size.

We shouldn't be too concern about our weight when we are growing up. I think as long as we exercise and eat healthy.

My normal daily diet:
Morning:
- hot cocoa with lots of milk
- toast with nuttela or
- scrambled eggs

Lunch:
- Chicken rice Icon_emotions16

Tea Time:
- hot cocoa
- chocolate cake or sometimes some cookies

Dinner:
- Green Salad or vegetables (lots)
- Meat/Fish
- Fruits

Sometimes we only have salad and soup for dinner but if I am hungry at night, I will eat a piece of toast or something like that.

What are your daily diet... approx.
Ashirox... I think too much rice makes you fat! You can put on weight by eating properly. Stay away from too much sweet Indian food! Icon_evil16

=P

My parents love Indian food and each time they eat them, they promised themselves they will go on a diet the next day!!! They say it makes them feel bloated.
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Shilpa · Posted: Mon Apr 24, 2006 3:46 pm Post subject:

oh yes!!rich indian food is always oozing in ghee or clarified butter with tons of sugar!! but i don't really like indian sweets cause i find them too sweet!!

HX, many people say rice is fattening. i don't know but i eat rice everyday when i'm eating home food & i am not really fat!
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Ashirox · Posted: Mon Apr 24, 2006 4:45 pm Post subject:

bugbug · Posted: Mon Apr 24, 2006 5:27 pm Post subject:

wait first we talk about weight then now food?
Bad combo
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t h e . d r e a m e r · Posted: Thu Apr 27, 2006 4:05 pm Post subject:

We're talking about proper nutrition and that would include food! =P

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Shilpa · Posted: Thu Apr 27, 2006 4:08 pm Post subject:

oh! maybe my body burns up calories quckly! i don't really know!
& by the way the spelling is carbohydrate!! Icon_favorites49

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Ashirox · Posted: Thu Apr 27, 2006 4:08 pm Post subject:

I'm slim,Eating more of rice would help me.
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