Problem...

YZ · Posted: Tue May 30, 2006 2:27 pm Post subject: Problem...

My best friend is like so busy, she's kinda getting farther from me (if you know what I mean.) And she's sort of childish which well...irritates me. I wish she would stop being so childish, but I just don't have the heart to tell her. What should I do?
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nanelisabeth · Posted: Mon Jun 05, 2006 5:46 pm Post subject:

Well you should tell her. Instead of hiding your feelings and letting her never know that you think she's childish, its better to tell her the truth. You can tell her nicely but even if she goes angry at you, you still have to tell her that she's still your friend. A good friend will always understand you, and if she's busy like in homework or school work, you really cannot do anything but maybe help her sometimes, you cant expect her to throw away all her duties and go hang out with you. You have to be fair and you could always lend a helping hand. Instead of waiting and bearing her "childlisheness" do something about it instead
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S! · Posted: Mon Jun 05, 2006 5:51 pm Post subject: ......

yes i agree with Nancy! if you want a lasting and loyal friendship then you have to learn to share your feelings, cuz that's the only way to get to know and understand your friend better! and this way, she can also understand how you feel...get what i meant?
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